Saying Goodbye: Coping with the Loss of a Beloved Pet

Losing a pet is heart-wrenching. They’re more than animals – they’re companions, family, and shower us with unconditional love. We understand that grief after saying goodbye is valid, complex, and deeply personal.

Why It Hurts So Much

Pets greet us with joy, walk beside us through life’s highs and lows, and offer unwavering companionship. They become part of our day-to-day world, and we become part of theirs. It’s no wonder their passing leaves such a void.

In cases of euthanasia, the grief can feel even heavier. Choosing peace over pain is an act of love, but it can also bring feelings of guilt and self-doubt. These emotions are normal, and they don’t mean your choice was wrong. They mean you cared deeply.

What Grief Can Look Like

Grief doesn’t follow a tidy timeline. One day you may feel acceptance; the next, profound sorrow. You might cry, feel numb, get angry, or question yourself. All these reactions are okay. Pet loss often affects us as profoundly as losing a loved family member or friend.

We encourage families to:

Acknowledge Your Feelings – Every emotion is valid.
Talk About It – With loved ones or support groups who understand pet loss.
Create a Memorial – A photo album, candle ritual, or personalised keepsake can honour your pet beautifully.

Supporting Yourself and Others

Be gentle with yourself. Eat well, sleep, and rest without guilt. Children and other pets also grieve – offer reassurance and create space for them to express feelings too.

Here are a few ways to heal:

Plant a flower or tree in your pet’s memory
Start new routines that feel comforting
Consider therapy or pet loss support groups if grief becomes overwhelming

We’re here to support you through gentle endings and the difficult days that follow. You’re not alone – and your love will always matter.

There are many resources available to guide you, such as;

Remember, you are not alone, and if we can offer any help or guidance at Paws Over the Rainbow please don’t hesitate to contact us on 07942077180